Parents for the most part would experience their own fair share of challenges to go on at their own account. The thought of just laying back and relaxing may not be much of a choice for you to take, as parents need to have the sole instinct to be mindful of the whereabouts and happenings that their kid or children are going through on a daily basis. For some, they had even opted to invest themselves in a few parenting guide manuals or books that they could read through in order to know the ropes that they are going to make as a responsible and even responsive parent at that. Do not take things for granted as even the simple aspects in life may need to have their own amount of evaluation to be done to make sure that your kid would have the utmost growth and development that they could muster in their own stride. Sometimes, not being able to trust their own terms may put some parents at an uneasy state which leads them to venture themselves unto the idea of using such manuals or everyday tips to ease them of their worries. On the other hand, growth through pure instinct may also not be much of a bad idea for you to try to do in order to better the chances of your care and nurture to be take in by your child as they grow up to become full fledged adults on their own.
Keep in mind though, that every new generation as a parent may have their own different experiences to live by at their own accord and interest. To you, it may seem to go bad every single time that a new generation arrives, but in hindsight, this actually provides a very much good platform for you to live by to make sure that each new batch of parents and children would be better than that of their predecessors. One thing that you could do as a parent in this case is to make sure that the children themselves would have their fair share of balance between setting up their own limits and freedom, to make sure that they are able to keep up with their own growth and development in a much healthier way than what you might have expected to do in your very own understanding as a parent. It is a mere fact to say that children grow up too fast, but, it may be quite unfortunate to think that some children would mature too soon for their age, which would have them not enjoy their childhood in the process. Make sure that you are letting them be their own person, while on a side note, being low-key watchful to make sure that they would not put themselves into any trouble that may endanger their own life in the long run. Let them dream and know, that they should follow the path to where life takes them to. And finally, learn to let your child live their own life, as they are in fact people on their own, and that they should also be treated as equals later on.